I'm starting to think that word is becoming very demanding and demeaning at the same time, it seems to have some type of friendship with someone other than your loved one, becomes more of a challenging task than looking for true love.
I believe friendships shouldn't be this way. Why try so hard for a simple connection to gain the ability of trust and heart to heart conversations and then be let down in the near future by the outsides norms that's suppose to make you mature?
But in reality people use the quote "bring your friends close and your enemies closer" when really it should be "keep your friends close and keep them aquatinted to your life for good" for that's what makes life important then living an introvert life or life by your own rules.
That's what makes this " enemy" the result if loosing best friends, when if they have become this way then you had to decide whether it not they should be resented for their actions and just forgive them or as I like to use "read between the lines"
I was never the cause of my past friendships to diminished nor did I ignore an offer of hanging out. I was at least honest and open to my own opinions even if they can't realize how contradictive they may be.
There is always time for someone and always time to listen. No matter what it may be.
Don't waste a friendship just because they don't work around your lifestyle, if you do this then you deserve to be alone.
"Some friendships, no matter how hard you try, never recover the joy they once had. But if you feel pain of regret or remorse when you think about a lost friend and do nothing about it, you'll never know what might have been."
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