The lack of term: Friendships

I'm starting to think that word is becoming very demanding and demeaning at the same time, it seems to have some type of friendship with someone other than your loved one, becomes more of a challenging task than looking for true love.

I believe friendships shouldn't be this way. Why try so hard for a simple connection to gain the ability of trust and heart to heart conversations and then be let down in the near future by the outsides norms that's suppose to make you mature?

But in reality people use the quote "bring your friends close and your enemies closer" when really it should be "keep your friends close and keep them aquatinted to your life for good" for that's what makes life important then living an introvert life or life by your own rules.

That's what makes this " enemy" the result if loosing best friends, when if they have become this way then you had to decide whether it not they should be resented for their actions and just forgive them or as I like to use "read between the lines"

I was never the cause of my past friendships to diminished nor did I ignore an offer of hanging out. I was at least honest and open to my own opinions even if they can't realize how contradictive they may be.

There is always time for someone and always time to listen. No matter what it may be.

Don't waste a friendship just because they don't work around your lifestyle, if you do this then you deserve to be alone.

"Some friendships, no matter how hard you try, never recover the joy they once had. But if you feel pain of regret or remorse when you think about a lost friend and do nothing about it, you'll never know what might have been."

Relationship Disinegrating? Part 2

      Now even though communicating and trust are the huge fundamentals of being in an everlasting relationship, this would’ve been the prime of all things to leave to a happy ending, and i myself wouldn’t have to acquire a part two...But not in this present day. The main thing that ruins all of this in the worst way possible is the social media of technology.

       This is the truth, "the shit storm that will end all relationships" reason for this to happen is to blame on both sex. Think about it girls don’t carry diaries anymore to convey their life story of a boy crush in middle school and they don’t talk on the phone as much with their girlfriends. With cell phones and computers, keeping a secret is like wondering what sauce McDonalds use in the Big Mac...yeah Thousand Island dressing. It’s becoming a dying norm of personal information for oneself. Hacking is always a primitive to ruining a person’s life. Even when your other half can also look up your past and trying to bring it up to the present, that’s wrong. But if you read part one of this you know this wouldn’t have happened.

      Now why is this part of disintegrating you say? With having facebook and twitter and any social media based technology will become the downfall of the relationship.

     One thing that’s well known is when talking with the opposite sex. Let’s be honest here unless you have a gay friend of the opposite sex okay, but if you are in a relationship with someone you love and trust but yet talking with other guys constantly or more than your other half, then that’s a problem. In all honestly I myself do not do this, I don’t intend to because really I found the love of my life, my best friend. I don’t need 2309482394 girls to talk to when really my girl is cooler than you...yes i used that line. seriously guys knock it off, enjoy the relationship you have now because once she finds your messages and such and how you react to girls; bye bye to you "bro" ugh such a retarded word. Don’t think the girls get away from this either, they do the same thing too without knowing that we men in honestly do get annoyed by it. You’re in a relationship now as well quit adding a billion guys that you’ve seen for a day or never and just drop the phone and enjoy each other’s company. In the end don’t message endlessly with the opposite sex or even try to hang out one on one, what gives you the right too? Explain this to me.

     Secondly I know both genders do this; I’ve seen it then and now. Holding on to their ex's, past flirts numbers and having them on facebook etc. Like....really? I shouldn’t have to explain this. You’re here to start anew with someone, do you really think holding on to the past from someone that’s hurt and broke your heart before gains anything for your new relationship? Come on delete it and don’t memorize it that’s just sad to. When deleting your hurtful past you will gain a stronger future. I don’t see those hurtful people keeping tabs on you when they’ve moved on.

     Last but mostly the least; Lying about information that is shown in the social media for everyone to see. Never judge your loved one of their past because you weren’t part of it and if they’ve changed from it and you’ve communicated it’s just a better ending. No one is perfect I agree on this but if they find something and you lie about it? How does that make them feel? Distant.

     These situations have ruined many relationships from what I’ve noticed for a very long time and they tend to hate each other afterwards. People these days only argue through text, via Aim or Facebook Messenger when they can just talk on the phone or meet in person to settle it all. Why risks hiding anything from your other half if you want your relationship to get pass all the bumpy roads? Or perhaps towards something stronger like marriage?

     For whom ever reads this please take it to heart and appreciate what you have and what your other half can give you, if this person is a complete douche then obviously talk it out or break up. But if this is the person you’ve been waiting all your life and it’s just beyond what you dreamt of them to be then don’t hold anything back, they’re a keeper for life.

 "We're born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendhip can we create the illusion for the moment that we're not alone" - Orson Welles

Relationship Disintegrating ? Part 1

First I would like to say, this is my opinion on this subject. If you do not agree with what I am about to say then I would suggest you read some Yahoo article or something else. You can leave a comment and I will reply back, otherwise enjoy.

            I have to say relationships have lost its touch in becoming the main thing in a human’s life to gain. It's becoming more of a complex yet very stressful situation for many. I for one am glad through all of this I have found the love of my life to hold and have for the rest of my life and to also agree with what I will be discussing too. But any who lets start off with why I feel like relationships are disintegrating.

           I begin with the fundamental of what I think a true relationship entails to last a lifetime for one another. Basically as we know a relationship is when two people share a bond with each other to produce a mutual standoff to mold into a love connection in time. Although this sounds intriguing relationships can be tough, it’s what makes us learn one another and process thoughts as to finding "the one" comes with time filled with communicating, showing trust and respect for ones feelings and intellect. This is what builds around your relationship to last for a lifetime.

            Reading that you would think this is something we can all agree to and hope this is what’s going on in the world today...well here comes the truth of all of this is that, it’s completely opposite. Why you ask? No one can trust one another with the social media around us today, no one can communicate with each other physically or emotionally without having a phone, or computer lodged to their face. Technology takes away that one step to become honest with one another, or show gratitude for each other’s company and feel at home.

            The word "Trust" has been overdubbed with using "I Love You" or "I Believe you" Why dont these people listen to a classic by the Extremes titled "More Than Words"; the title explains itself. No one shows the feeling of love anymore. No one shows the trust for one another without being scolded and ridiculed by the social media itself. This is one way its disintegrating.

          With Trust and Communication you would have to hide yourself behind a screen and hold secrets from one another, you could always tell your other half that you trust them; they’re suppose to be your best friend more than your own friends. Hiding something from them and not trusting them does disintegrate the relationship to the core, and can cause many negative situations, there’s never good in hiding things from someone who is there for you always. I myself would rather know the truth of something then finding out the hard way because not only does it annoy my other half but also myself, which can hurt the relationship. It takes a toll on you in the end. Never be afraid to tell them how you feel and what’s going on, if you truly love them and believe them through communication you will have that pure love people want always.

         Most people don’t do this at all, only a rare bunch. No one does this which makes me sick and makes you look stupid; and no open relationship and not marrying someone that you love doesn’t make your love everlasting, you’re just a coward for not even committing "till death do us apart". But that’s another story.

        Well this is Part One; my advice in all honestly is communicating and trusts each other. You will regret it.

 "Trust is the fruit of a relationship in which you know you are loved" - Paul Young

Humankind's False Progress

Progress - Forward or onward movement towarda destination.

Mankind in itself has not surpassed or promised anyone in this country that Ilive in, or countries around the world "Change" or shall I say Progress. In all honestly I'd rather live hundreds of years in the past than being here in the present. Reason for this is walking down the street didn’t kill you,when enjoying sceneries around the world in the past wasn’t infested and polluted by ignorant pricks who thought collecting dead particles will help make pure energy. When finding a job becomes more stressful and education doesn’t become the norm for success; and no I don’t mean degree based, I mean Actual Intelligence.

 

We speak of this progress as if we have attained some great knowledge and now finally putting it to some good use to help humanity when in reality this progress is just the toilet paper, and well...You get the rest of it. Mankind is taking this Progress as just an iconic logo and really deceiving us behind the curtains; ironic isn’t it? There’s always a catch when you think this bigger step into the new world is going to help usin the long run.

Apparently Theoretical Physicist Michio Kaku claims that we will hit Type 1 civilization within 100 years. Frankly I don’t see this happening because of what’s been going on lately, our progress is actually going backwards when I see dim-witted shows like “Jersey Shore”, “The Apprentice”, similar based shows that consist of making humans look dare I say “Retarded”. These shows literally change people around the world, and they become these droned out imbeciles.

All I can say is Progress is diminishing unless we make a stand and find this “Change”that our iconic President of the United States truly speaks of.

Enjoy this Rant Michio Kaku illustrates on Civilization


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UkuCtIko798  Human Evolution

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9n-tTst-vyQCivilization

“The world as we have created it is a process of our thinking. It cannot be changed without changing our thinking.” – Albert Einstein

Here We Go..

Well this is first post of the day,

No I did not start on this for a New Years resolution, more of venting out my thoughts on life.
Speaking of which thats such such a pathetic mindset to think that you need a resolution or some goal that will diminish in time and not make you a better person. Such as "going to the gym more", "be polite and kind to anyone around you" thats just something you should be doing anyways for yourself not for anyone around you tell you  to do so and send negative remarks to you. Haha New Years Resolution more like find a wall; hit your head on the wall; repeat.

Just make your own path, find yourself, start making changes and admitting to yourself beacause life gets better this way without regrets.

"You know yourself what you are worth in your own eyes" - Epictetus